I decided to ave my mom in a home almost 5 yrs ago. It wasnt just my decision, my sister wanted the same. Now my mom is getting much much worse. She has dementia. She may pass soon as she no longer gets out of bed. I am having to extreme regret and guilt that I did not bring my mom into my home. I feel very strongly that I made the wrong decision, that I could have cared for her with some help. I feel I didn't even try.