since I'm the only next of kin, i really would like to deactivated my mum pacemaker, but her cardiologist is not approved, since my mum currently rely on her pacemaker 100%. She is hemorrhagic stroke, and now she developed early dementia and osteoporosis. She is 76 years old this year. She couldn't recognize me, she have major depression. I'm emotional exhausted. My mum sisters keep calling me and tell me nasty things, from nasty daughter, to a very rebellious daughter. They only know how to give me verbal assistance, but none could help physical assistance or even expenses. My mum doesn't have any insurance, her whole life money now being hold by her sisters, which decline to gave me. the reason is for mum after her recovery. My mum hospital bills, until her daily physiotherapy is bare by my husband. First we used our children trust fund, then we used our pension money, and at the end we sold our house. I couldn't bring my mum back to my place, is not a place for stroke patient. Is a rental house. We are trying to survived, while earning a living. Fed the kids, sending them to school, paying school fees. Oh my goodness.....what have i done..... what should i do??