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He will be happier where he is because he does have friends. Moving where sister is he may have no social outlet. If she works, he will be alone all day. Like said, if not broken, leave it alone.
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If it is not broke, don't fix it. Your dad likes where he is living, is closer to medical care, has friends. That pretty much says it all.

Falls can happen anywhere at any time. He should stay where he is.
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Do your best to dissuade your sister. I don't think it's a good idea to persuade your dad to move away from somewhere that he is happy.

Falls are scary, but they're inevitable. Your sister won't be able to stop your dad from falling. Just look at all the other comments here from people whose parents live with them and they worry constantly about their frequent falls.

It's likely that moving your dad will create new problems, and his life will have been disrupted for nothing. At least, nothing good.

I wish you and your family the best.
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Is dad cognizant? If so he can decide where he wants to live.
If dad is NOT cognizant then whoever is POA makes the decision as to where dad is to reside based on:
1. getting the care he needs on a daily basis
2. his safety
If dad is not cognizant and has no POA and you think that a move like this would place him in danger you could petition to become his Guardian and then the decision would be yours as to where dad can safely live.

Is your sister FULLY aware of all your dad's needs and what it takes to care for him?
Is her house such that she can safely care for him. And he is safe in her house?
Is dad able to pay her for his care? Not just his care but for his fair share of ALL household expenses. If she takes a vacation where will dad go? If she is sick or injured who will care for dad? Can he afford caregivers in addition to paying your sister for his care? (I think if you break it down the cost of 24/7 care, food, housing in an AL facility it is less than paying for the same 24/7 care at home)

Now, when you say the ER is 2 hours away do you mean a level I Trauma center or a level V Trauma center is 2 hours away? Or a trauma center that is a level II, III or IV? While anything is possible is there a possibility that dad would need a level I trauma center? If so and it is that far away most likely a helicopter would be dispatched to get him to the level I or II if that is necessary.
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Important to know if Dad has dementia and can or cannot make his own choice in this matter. Important to know what the plans are if Sister finds she cannot do this care, despite what her beliefs are now in this regard.

Falls are common to elders and more for some than for others. Our lower brain area responsible for balance deteriorates earlier than many other parts of the brain and we cannot easily recover ourselves when we trip or stumble. Falls are so common that, unless something is broken or there's an injury to head or face, many facilities just notify family and do not take person to ER at all.

Also, given a certain age, and whether someone is code status positive, the importance of IMMEDIATE medical care takes on less importance. Much of this is about personal choice and advance directives.

Only you know your Dad.
Only you and family know family and their ability to do intensive care that is CERTAIN to be needed more and more; the trajectory is downward without fail.
And then you come to "who is POA" if Dad can't make his own choices.
Because no matter what "anyone wants", that is the person who makes the decision when the elder cannot.
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