taking care of two family can be very hard, especially when just one adult is working.my father lived with my youngest brother(momma boy)he never put down anyone else in his mortgage,so father has been paying utility and rent. as a family we move in finding out that my father has advance dementia and alzheimers disease and everything else that comes with it. we are now paying our bills plus my brothers. our problem is we now have to move out of (momma boys) house cause we couldnt keep up with mortgage,bills and our bills plus car payment and insurance. we also have a 15 year old that was taking 4 advance classes,she had drop to ds cause of everything that is going on. as parents is hurts to see her going down on her education the last thing we want as parents....as family we have 2 bros. that are out of state that say they will help but they have their lives and they can only do so little. we have 1 sister that is here (not in same house) that can only help when not at work. as my father caregiver I tell myself that i can do this. my loving caring husband has been with me through all of this, he has help me raise my 3 children from another man. we have been married for 15 wonderful years. he also had a child with a love one he lost when baby was only 19 days old. but she is ours. so just like everyone out there that cares for their parents I will doing any thing for my father as his daughter. bank want the house we are tying to do our best to keep up with everything. we have 1 car for doc.,appt.,school, work,etc..... my question to anyone.. what can we do as to getting some help.