I find myself in a position that I never thought I would be in. Moving my Mother into our home. I am trying to deal with the resentment from years of abuse and outright hatred from her. I just want her safe and taken care of. I am crying as I write this. I'm not normally one to air the "poor me" attitude. It is hard to care for someone that has brought this on herself with heavy alcoholism and lack of empathy. She won't do the easiest of tasks, wanting to waited on hand and foot even though physically she is able. Moving her in has also caused a huge financial burden. I guess I just need to know how others deal with this.