It can kill you. I am 49, have absolutely no problems with blood sugar, high blood pressure or my weight. Yet I had a SCAD heart attack a month ago and I know in my gut it is from the stress of caring for my parents since 2015. My father first for 7 years with his kidney failure and when he passed my mom's Alzheimer's went from frustrating to a rapid decline into hell. I read somewhere a high percentage of caregivers die before the person they are caring for. I don't know if that is a fact but from my experience I would not be surprised. I can't think of anything that has been more difficult for me to do in my entire life. 24/7 365 I am always worrying about her. I love her so much and this cruel disease is capable of taking more than just the life of the sufferer.
You’ve done enough.
Place mom. Good luck in finding the perfect place!