In order to keep this question short and sweet I have based it down to this question tobother caregivers whom care for their elderly parent. I live with my elderly father whose health has been on a slow decline for 5yrs. I have no life whatsoever...I need change! And change fast before I loose-it and ruin what relationship we have left. How do I convince my father that he deserves better care then what I can provide for him? He says he does not want to go to a NH. This is the only option we have left for him. ...Any suggestions would be much appreciated!