My mom died 2 weeks ago, now my dad refuses to grieve or accept any assistance with the housework. He is selling his house and moving into an apt building right next to mine and is depending on me to be his caretaker. He CAN cook for himself, but everything else is up to me. I have Fibromyalgia and arthritis in both knees.
I guess I already know what I need and should do, I have a wonderful therapist who understands me and my situation completely.
I just needed to get this out of my mind.
Thanks for listening!