I have my dads will and trust and it states that I am poa, however I am confused because it states my dad has to be found incompetent by two doctors. He is just forgetful and can not handle his finances so I have stepped in to help him. Im not sure if I can legally help him. My brother is calling police and telling everyone on facebook that I am taking his money away from him. Im not taking his money, and I have a paper trail that shows his bills are being taken care of and I make sure he is involved in everything. Does anyone have any advice for me? This is what is going on now, my brother is threatening to call the state on me. I am handling all my dads finances because my brother and other family members are taking advantage of his money. I am poa, however will states he needs to be held incompetent. I dont know what to do at this point. I am trying to focus on my dad and making sure he has a good future and can stay in his home. I am afraid that APS will get involved and take my dad away.