It can become a dependency to complain.
Personally, I found myself going to this site too much.
I am a strong person, with many life lessons learned.
So, I decided to stay away a lot more.
Upon a revisit, I could see, sad, begets anger, begets perpetual cycles.
Stop the insanity.
You cannot change the elderly.
You CAN, put yourself first.
YOU CAN BE IN CHARGE.
REMEMBER LIFE CAN BE GOOD......LOOK FOR YOUR HAPPY.