I stayed at evening church program today:) Eleven-year-old cousin was home with Aunty. She has not stayed in her own bedroom since her stroke last year (she has been sleeping on the downstairs couch). When I came home she screamed at me because she asked cousin to take photos of her room because she wanted to know how clean it was. She was unhappy over the way it looks: The laundry basket is sloppy (I was in a hurry this morning when I dressed her and didn't have time to fix it back neatly).There are too many things on the dresser ( I never moved anything from the way she left it when she moved downstairs because I didn't want to be accused of taking or losing something.)There is dust in the room. I never swept the floor. (I clean the entire upstairs weekly.) In the past, there were always certain things that I never touched while cleaning because that's what I was told to do. Now I am wrong about everything and the 11-year-old "angel" is being used as a spy to check behind me when I'm not home. I don't appreciate being yelled at ; when I asked her if she was mad she said, no, I'm upset.Isn't that the same thing? ??? I never know what to do because I'm always wrong.If I said the sky is blue, she would probably insist it was purple! So now I am going to spend this entire week deep cleaning her room instead of searching for a new orthopedic doctor for myself (another long story: old doctor left to go to another hospital, and I don't like his replacement. )She is supposed to restart home therapy either this week or next (I am waiting for them to call us).She said that the first thing she wants to learn is how to go upstairs.