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Is this mother's fault? I think so, as she has pitted us against each other in very sly and sneaky ways. She's totally self absorbed and on holidays, if my YB doesn't visit or call, she acts like it's the end of the world. Her Golden Boy---(which he hates being called!)...doesn't matter what the other 4 of us have done, if HE doesn't call or show up, her day is ruined.
As far as any inheritance, there will be so little money that it's not worth mentioning. All of us but my YS are simply going to give our 'inheritance' back to YB who has cared for mom in his home.
We all know how much we're receiving and it's almost an embarrassment, it's so small. Mom has held this over our heads for years and when I found out it's less than $10K I laughed. That amt won't change any of our lifestyles.
We sibs get along, but we're not close. I can go an entire year without talking to my sister. We just have nothing in common.
"My mother passed Feb 8th. I took care of her for the last 5 years. My 2 sisters who live close by are basically absent then and now as I sift through my moms things. They weren’t present for her care. I thought it would be different once she passed but it’s not. "
What are the issues you are having? Is it that you have to now deal with your mom's estate, probate, belongings, legal stuff all by yourself? More information would be helpful. I'm very sorry for your loss.