I have a new dilemma. Both of my daughters recently became engaged and will both be married within a few months of each other next year. There are no family members that I can count on to help. Obviously, I will be very busy as well as my husband and my daughters will both be each other's maids of honors with lots to do. Mom is in a wheelchair and needs help getting around. She is reluctant to bring her aide with her to the wedding which is what I want, I don't feel that there is a really a choice. Any thoughts? Suggestions?