I am just worn out from getting up and down all night long. She does not remember which is good for her, but her days are getting worse because she does not sleep. Is there ANYTHING that can help this condition so she and my husband and I can get good nights sleep. We are truly getting sleep deprivation and it is wearing on us. Anyone out there had any help in this area that helps the person? She has dementia also, so she not only gets up alot, she has delusions and hallucinations. Just need some help in getting her help for sleep and the incontinence at night. Any ideas or help that anyone knows of? Doctor has her on the highest dose of detrol, but to no avail. Please advice if you have had success. Thank you and God Bless.