I moved my mom in my house 5 years ago after my dad passed away. A few days after my dad left us my mom had a stroke. Since this happened I had to take care of all the funeral arrangement and look after my mom in hospital. I have 3 older brothers, but they're no help. Moved my mom into my house when she got out of hospital to take care of her. My mom was alright the first year or so, but all she does is complain and stay in her room. I love my mom, but it's affecting my marriage. My husband has been standing by me, but now he tell me that I've chagned. It's hard to see my mom depressed and I don't know what to do. My mom is diabetic and doesn't care what she eats. I try to make healthy food, but if she doesn't like it she has comments. I've told one of my brothers to take her a month or so to give me time with my family. He's asked her, but she always say, " NO". I've told her a few months back that I was having trouble with marriage and wanted her to go stay with brother, but she didn't. I love my husband and I want to see if my mom stressing me out is what is causing us to fight. It really frustrates me when my brother comes over and my mom is a different person. They might visit for an hour and they leave. I've told my husband, I wish I could visit like they do. Sometimes I think my mom is happy when my marriage isn't working. I don't want to think this,but she is so negative and I can't stand it anymore. I've never talked back to my parents, so telling my mom to leave I feel really guilty. What should I do? I'm afraid my mom won't understand that I need time along with my family.