I'm a single Mom and my Mom with Alzheimers has moved in with me. I received a military retirment check and VA Disability. I was running my own business. I can no longer work since I'm taking care of Mom on a full time basis. Mom makes more than I do with her retirements, SS and other pensions. Is it wrong for me to use her money to pay some of the bills. I've been questioned by other family members as to why all of her money is not going into a savings. We have all agreed that Mom will not be put into an assisted iving or nursing home. Mom chose me to live with. I an't turn my back on her just because of money. I'm I wrong to use her money to help me out financially. I don't know what else to do. Prior to her moving in with me I was making over $30,ooo more per year. Mom told me to use what I needed prior to her decline. I have full POA and have been the only one tending to her for 5 years. I've taken care of all financial and business and medical issues. When no one else bothered. I don't want this to cause a family feud. But I also have a son to think about and the upkeep of my home.