What is the best way to transport my mother with Alzheimer's and my husband with dementia 500 miles to a new home?
We are moving from MD to SC to be closer to my daughter and 17 yr old grandson to help care for my mom and husband. My 84-year-old mom is currently in a very expensive Alzheimer's Assted Living facility and I have recently brought my 77-year-old husband home from the same facility after having a left neglect stroke on 7/4 last year. My mom is doing very well in the facility. However with assistance from my family and privately, I feel I can bring my mom home to live with us. My husband is doing much better after the stroke last year, but is being treated with medications for high anxiety and depression. I have heard many suggestions to get them to SC (500 miles) from MD when it is time to move. One suggestion was a medical transport RV. I'm not sure my mom or husband could withstand the 8 hour trip even if they were able to walk around in the RV (my mom has a walker, my husband wheelchair). I was told that flying was out because of the air pressure for their brains??. My mom has never flown before, but the trip is only 1 hour and 20 mins, but we do have the early arrival and wait time for the flight. All suggestions are appreciated.