What am I to do? My dad walks around with a very large sum of money and his passbook savings account in his pockets. I cant get him to stop doing this. He becomes irate when I mention it to him. I don't take him to the bank anymore because of this. Dad has been with me seven months and hasn't given me anything toward household expenses. I pay for a lot of things out of my own pocket. I even pay someone to sit with him while I go to church and this has cost me quite a bit. I pay all his expenses even down to his medications..