My father has CHF and needs additional care. My mom is not capable of doing it and refuses to accept that. She has her own health issues. My mom has become extremely forgetful-which is very scary because my father is on so much medicine. The home health care aid starts tomorrow and I already feel bad for her!! My mom is going to be nasty! My one sister wants to say just forget it-if mom and dad don't want our help- there is nothing we can do about it. I am scared for my parents!! Please help-the past holidays were the worst!! Thank you!!!