We are both in late 60's. My wife had leg pain, misdiagnosed for years, final got back surgery with rods in her back couple of years ago. Recently sleep apnea, she tries to do much for herself but all the housework falls to me. It is difficult to go anywhere because of all the stuff we have to take. Everything I use is way up or way down low because can't reach it.. She now out weighs me by 60 pounds spends most of her time watching TV, eating or reading in bed. She takes many prescriptions and lots of pain killers. She has fallen several times. I am finding myself depressed. I sound like some woman complaining about her shiftless husband.