What should I do if my sister flew my mom down to be with her and is not letting her go back home?
Well we have been taking care of my husbands mom for the past 4 months, she has Alzheimer's, and she is not getting any better. His sister from Florida thought it would be nice to have her come down and spend Christmas with her. So without even tell mom she bought the tickets (using moms money) and flew in to pick her up. Well just today we found out she is not going to let mom come back. We feel that she had this planned all along. Mom belongs in a assistant living place not cooped up in someones house out in the middle of no where. She seems to believe that she knows what is best for mom after only living with her for 2 weeks. We even had mom at a doctors and he said she should not be cooped up, she should be with people her own age and active. Now she is saying that she is going to need moms money every month. Why we don't know being that she works and she is an adult. Sometimes she works 13 hours a day. How is she going to take care of someone that needs constant care. We need to find out what we can do about this so she doesn't take all of moms money. Any advice????