My sis has an arrangement with my parents, their land and property in exchange for their care. Alzheimers. I have been told stay away. HOW??
they want her to have inheritance and feel she must work for it to earn it. I think it will be impossible to do with both of them with dementia. she is tired already. Family members have said to respect their wishes and stay out of it. She needs help. She also wants inheritance. My husband and i are health care professionals and could ease the situation greatly. should we respect our parents wishes. We have been told we will be delegated to when the time comes, till then she and her husband are in charge. I am very worried for all of them. My husband and I are not concerned about the inheritance. We are concerned that their resources will not be used to help them. We have offerred financial help and told it was not necessary. Right now my parents are languishing in hospitals because no one can make a decision, due to fatigue. How do i work this out, or do I stay out of it,