How do you deal with resentment of your sibling who is in control of everything for your parent and doesn't include you on any decisions?
Mom is in assisted living and taken care of well.
Sibling has healthcare POA and financial POA but declared bankruptcy and has gotten money from Mom over the years, $10000 one time, and never paid her pack. I know it's Mom's money and she can do what she chooses with it, even if she does have beginning dementia. Sibling convinced Mom to give her control over everything, and sibling has always been a private person and works 'alone' and does not include either my other sibling nor I on decisions.