How do I handle my Mom's primary care doctor pressuring me to have a back up plan?
My Mom is 84, does decent living independently. Obviously I do allot for her, but as far as living alone, she seems to do better in her home. I understand that changes are coming with dementia/early alzheimers. She is adamant and stubborn about "dying" in her home. Won't talk about assisted living, or moving in with us. I check on her several times a week, take her to appointments, do her medicines, just trying to keep her sane and safe at this point. And I know what her doctor is saying, but how do I get my Mother to see the light here?