How do I deal with a parent who won't let go of controlling everything even though she knows things need to done?
My mother has always been in control and now I'm trying to get things in order like a living trust but she won't go sign the papers because too much is going on. I've tried to not take over but when is enough enough? The only way I can deal with is if a drink. which is not good. Also, my husband is seriously ill and he needs my as much as she does. So who do I choose?