The nursing home wants to send my father-in-law to an assisted living facility, but the family would rather him stay. What can we do?
Father in law medically is in fair shape for having COPD and congestive heart failure due to care and meds. However the NH wants to send him to Assisted living. The family would like to see him stay in the NH.
He also has moderate dementia diagnosis and fails testing for decisional capacity. He probably has narcissistic personality disorder and grandiose thoughts of himself. He thinks he can do anything and dosent care who gets hurt in the process.
We don't know what to do with him. He won't listen to us and says he fired his son as healthcare proxy. (Son is also POA) but I guess that's also in question. The father also makes false accusations about theft, and tells the NH that the only thing he will accept is to go home. We all know that's not the place for him.