my 3 sisters and 1 brother plus myself, seems like a lot of caregiving, but we live in different counties and work , I baby sit my grand daughter. My mom needs someone to make sure her meds are given and that she eats. She has no trouble getting around and is pretty healthy for a 90 year old wth dementia. She definitely needs her meds as she hears voices without them. I wish we could find someone to move in with her, but doesn't look like that will happen. Visiting Angels are good, but getting very expensive most days and nights.
She is running out of money and we cannot keep up the house and our homes too. My oldest sister is 72 and has health issues, it is running all of us ragged. What can we do to get her to move, she has a house full of furniture to get rid of and we need to put the house on the market to sell so she can have enough money to live some where else. She rotates weekends staying with 3 of us. But she wants to be at home and wants us to stay with her. This is getting so hard to deal with and very frustrating.