My mother has been sitting for days now crying, depressed, and asking why my father, who has been dead for 25 years has left her for other women.. Right now she is yelling at me to write him a note telling him where we are going to be. She's angry when we tell her he's dead. She doesn't want me to lock the front door at night because he won't be able to come in. She says over and over again she doesn't know where he is or why he won't come home. She asks everyone who comes in the door if they have seen him. We've tried playing along and aswering with simple answers letting her know we haven't seen him we don't know where he is or how to get in touch with him. We've tried telling her that we did see him and he is stationed somewhere else and can't come home. Nothing seems to satisfy her and to be honest I am completely out of patience. It is so hard to come home from a long day at work to this. It is nonstop until she goes to bed and she begins the minute her eyes open in the morning.
Suggestions? Advice? I'm really at my wit's end with this.