We took mom's medication bottles out of her house because she can't manage her medications anymore. Now she thinks we're trying to kill her and doesn't trust me. What can we do?
We got six pill boxes for mom's pills. They are marked morning, noon, evening. At first she did well by herself placing the right medications in the right boxes. Since she broke her hip and had to be shocked two times to get her heart in rhythm, she has become confused about the pills. Every time we went to her house the pills were wrong. We asked Home Health to check on them, but they still ended up being wrong. We think it's because she messes with them herself. She thinks she can still do it right. A few weeks ago, we took the bottles away from her. One of us has been filling her boxes once a week. We go see her every week and call her twice a day. She is getting very upset because we took the pills away and does not understand we are doing this to help her get the right pills at the right time. She thinks we are trying to kill her. My husband can't handle her attitude and becomes very upset with her. Mom even told him that she didn't trust me. What can we do?