Grandma has lived in her home for over 35 years, after Grandpa passed away, she went downhill fast. She has become more agitated and has become harder to handle every month. We are assuming by the end of summer she will be needing more medical care than I can provide. This is a very hard transition for any family. Any advice would be helpful. We are all very close and we feel like we are giving up on her but I know my family is suffering at the same time with Caregiving Overload! My kids are starting to resent the fact that we moved states away to help her and sometimes she is so mean to them (they dont understand) and its taken a toll on my relationship as well...we are hanging in there but dont know how much longer we can.