I care for my dad, who has palsy Parkinson's. He's right handed, and he's flopped over on his right side. He usually has a hard time eating, do to that fact, and his face is always 6 inches or less from his food. He also needs to be re-propped up every minute or so. This has made mealtimes stressful for him, me, & my mom, who also takes care of him. Anyone know how to ease the stress?