There is plenty of money available to cover her nursing home expenses for a long time, but when and if the time comes that money runs out, I don't want the nursing home to require me to sell her beautiful antiques just to pay those bills. I want the family heirlooms to go to who my mother wanted them to go to and to sell the rest and put it in an account without my Mom's name on it. My father passed away 18 years ago. I am the only child and have managed everything regarding my mother's needs so far. She has demintia and the doctor has deemed her unable to make her own decisions regarding her health. Her attorney is appointed Power of Attorney, but I am still her blood daughter and should be able to make decisions regarding the contents of the house. Right?