She is very strong willed and hates change. Except for dimentia, she is very able. She doesn't think she has any health problems. We want to put Depends on her but we know she will either not use them or will take them off and try to hand wash them or put them in the wash machine. Any ideas on how we can get her into them and to keep her from washing them. Is there anything else out there besides Depends type products that may work?