How do I introduce the idea of Assisted Living to my 96-year-old mother?
I think it may be past time for me to put my Mother in Assisted Living. She's in Adult Day Care everyday but this has become a challenge getting her there.and the nights with her a re very long. They have a criteria at the Day Care and I think we may be stretching it now. She is very dependent on me and it is getting on my nerves, which I know sounds very selfish , but I can't ignore my feelings. Also , because we can't leave her alone it is becoming increasingly more difficult. I want to be considerate of all my family and I think this is may be the
I thought I would take her for respite care for about two weeks to see if this is a program she can adjust to and if the care is at level I would hope.
The day care providers have suggested I take this approach.
Any thought out there?