My husband and I have taken in his mom with Alzheimer's, while her husband lives thousands of miles away. Is it fair that he gets her Social Security Check?
My husband and i have taken in his mom with alzheimer's, while her husband is still alive he no longer wants to deal with her and is actually living thousands of miles away. My problem is that he is collecting her ss and has sent some money in the past for her he seems to be slowly pulling away from us and her and i feel it's because he doesn't want to keep sending money. we are not asking him for her whole check but i just feel it is wrong that he keeps all her money and she constantly asks us about it and we don't know what to say, we've told him that she wants her own money because she earned it and he threatens to put her in a home. I will stick money in her purse so she has some when we go out but i get so angry that he doesn't want anything to do with her but he'll keep taking her money.what should we do?