How do I change my heavy father's adult diapers?
My father in law is 81 and is in a nursing home, he has advanced Parkinson's and wears diapers only - I would like to bring him to our house to visit occasionally but worry about how to change the diapers. He can't help and he is heavy - 185 lbs or so.
Any advice on how to change him? I can perhaps get him on the toilet. I also worry that while he can't talk he is embarassed by this and would not want me or my husband handling it.