Mom has alway done all the paper work. Now that she is at an Alzheimers unit, Dad needs help with all the paper work to get onto medicaid. I have made all the appointments, paper copies and application information's. Dad is angry because there is one more trip to the bank he has to make. Its too much he says. I offered to call the bank myself, but he declined and begrudgingly said he would get it done. We live an hour apart, so I can't be there to do it all. How do I deal with all this anger?