How do you get over the resentment and bitterness regarding family members who won't help but easily could? Family members who've spent a lifetime judging other people so harshly? I never dreamed as my Mom entered this phase of things that certain family members would act as they are. Not only is it bad for my Mom because she needs their help but I feel it changes how I see them, who I see them as and there is grief in it for the people I thought I used to know. Any advice on how to make peace and move forward?