My mother has been in a nursing home now for a month. She is fine to the nursing staff although sometimes stubborn, but when my sister and I go to visit her, she starts with the tantrums and crying binges about wanting to go home. She is not able to care for herself anymore because of her diabetes and bathroom issues so going home is not an option. She would rather sit in her little room in front of her tv and feel sorry for herself. How can we help her to get use to her new home. She also has dimensia and forgets about when she is really sick and had vivid dreams of just coming to visit and going home with my sister.