My husband and I are very active, however my Dad does not like to go with us when we go out. We always love taking him with us, but he becomes a pain becasue he is not the center of attention. ( along w/the Dementia, he is family patriarc and old Italian and very demanding) We need a sitter?, how do I go about choosing what is best suited for his /our needs? where do I look for help? Budget is a factor.
You could see if your area RSVP (sometimes still called Retired Senior Volunteer Program) has\Senior Companions in place. This is a terrific program where elders who still want to be active can sit with other elders and keep them company.
Also, your faith group may have some people who will do this. You could also see if you have friends in the same boat and do some "sitter swapping."
Good luck to you. It sounds like you and your husband need to do some things alone. It would be nice if you can find a compromise - taking your Dad to appropriate things, and going as a couple to others.
Carol
Also, we have posted ads in the local college and have gotten a good response from a few college students who enjoy being with seniors &/or who are going into the social services field and appreciate the experience.
Another source is to locate schools in your area which offer CNA or HHA programs - a growing field - (Certified Nursing Assistant or Home Health Assistant). Graduating students are looking for work.
Other than that, you can call an agency but they are often $25 or more an hour.
Good luck, Toni.