my father is 94 and lives in a nursing home in New Jersey. the cost to me is over 2,0000.00 a month. this is draing my account. can I apply for assistance from the Government or State and get help for this problem?
acmetals12, you haven't given enough information for people to be able to help you. Set up a meeting with the social worker at your dad's nursing home, they can assist you.
The usual aid available for persons in a nursing home is Medicaid. Have you looked into that? As OncehatedDIL suggests, the social worker will be able to help you.