How do you not feel resentful when others don't help?
My mother-in-law battled cervical cancer 2 years ago. We moved her in with us and we were the only ones that took her to and from radiation (daily), chemo, doctor appts., etc., my husband has 2 brothers that refused to help. If my husband misses work, he doesn't get paid, so the task was mine. Even though it was difficult, we got thru it. She has now been diagnosed with breast cancer. Again, I am the one that has to take her to the appointments and will be the one that takes her to her daily radiation treatments, doctor appts., filing paper work etc. I am feeling resentful that the brothers will not help and the majority of the tasks are left up to me. How do i deal with this without my feelings affecting my relationship with her and my husband. It's not that I mind doing it. Another problem is the distance between where we live. I have a 100 mile round trip everytime I have to go get her and take her home. The days she goes to radiation it's 30 miles to CARTI and 30 miles back to my house then 20 miles to work. I'm feeling overwhelmed and would appreciate any advice anyone has