When my father moved in with me 6 years ago due to his diabetes, I was doing well financially, I had a full time job that I enjoyed and was making good money. When he moved in, he was waiting on SSDI to start and then for medicare so I was paying 80 - 90 percent of the bills, plus handling everything as he never has his whole life. This has gotten progressively worse, he used to take out the trash if I forgot and once in awhile even mowed.
Now I lost my job due to a disability and am on SSDI, making less than half of what he makes. My medications are more expensive than his and I lost my drivers license, yet still have to run every errand and handle all of the finances, I have tried to propose budgets but he won't look at them.
His health has gone downhill as all he does is sits at his computer, he put on about 150 lbs in a couple years, he never leaves his room except to get food, neglects the dogs when I am not around, leaves food all over the floor and cannot hit the toilet.
He cannot bend over to clean spills, had cut himself with knives numerous times due to eyesight issues, set off the smoke alarms at least once a month, spills food on himself burning himself and will not eat healthy at all.
I have no help from my siblings and gave up asking and even contacting them as they never call just to check up.
I am worn out, have gotten to a point that I see a psychotherapist 2 times a month for the past year and a half, and a psychiatrist once a month. I never want to be in the house anymore and once I step foot in suddenly feel depressed. I don't know what to do anymore.