I am struggling with whether to just take her home (a few hours away from me) or place her in a great assisted living facility in my town, or let her stay in my home with me. I would just take her home and hire home health, but there is a wrench with that plan because she has a "boyfriend" that is 30 years younger than her that we know is a criminal and has been stealing her life savings (a whole other problem). If I take her home, he will prey. She doesn't want to be in the facility and denies that she is even having problems.She has currently been staying with me,but she insists on going home almost every day. She is in this horrible stage where she knows enough to convince herself that there isn't a problem, but not enough to take care of herself.I want to do what is right for her and not just push what I want. It is so sad,I feel horrible.I have also thought about an apartment for her up here. I have tried talking with her, but all I get is "Mary, I am going home. I am going home!"