In April we brought my almost-90 year old mother to live with us and our 11-year old son. She has her own space but not a full kitchen. She wants to help me all the time, with cooking, etc. She is very slow and, when I do accept her help, ends up doing things her way instead of the way I have asked. I have asked her to wait until I ask for help but she cannot stop herself. She is very active with her church and still drives. I am thinking we need to go to a therapist or I need to tell her I'm just not going to answer her when she offers help.