My mom has started to berate me and leaves nasty notes about how I don't clean well enough. When do I say enough is enough?
I work through an agency for my mom. I clean her house, cook, help with bathing and anything else she needs. I also do things i should not, taking her places, dr , store, where ever she needs. also my kids get to come to work with me, and she has always enjoyed this. We have done this for years, never been much of a problem. but recently she has turned on me. Saying I am not doing my job, leaving notes saying i never clean this or that, that I clean like a 6-7 year old would, my kids are always crying. She even went as far as telling me that someone turned me in and she lied to cover my rear.
My time sheet says 24 hours per week, 5 days. Normally we go over 6 days, so each day is shorter, that way we get home for nap time. And She does not have 2 days in a row with one body there. We were sick recently, and i refuse to go when someone is sick, I dont need her catching it!! And since then the 2 babies have been whiny, one was teething at the same time as being sick. Mom has been short with them and me, telling me how much I am spoiling them, i hold the baby to much....So I stopped holding him if front of her, and put them in the toy room and try to keep them in there out of the way.
I want to quit, but i know i cant, i need the money from the job and she needs the help. How do I deal with this sudden change?