I noticed my mother has extremely swollen feet. My neighbor last year had the same swelling and was seeing a doctor for it. He died three months later. I have pleaded with my mom to get help for the swelling, but she insists it is nothing to be concerned about. I try to get her to elevate her feet, but she refuses. Does anyone have experience with this? And am I right to be concerned? I am currently trying to get POA, but in the meantime, any advice? Thank you for your help!