My 87 year old mother is insisting that we take out her $3000 she has in savings and give it to her in cash. This is all of her savings and she will not say what she wants it for. She accuses us of having stolen it from her. When we say we are worried it could be stolen or she will need it in the future, she says her finances are none of our business. It is partly dementia and partly a power struggle. We are afraid she wants to give it to the caregiver. We have contributed tens of thousands of dollars to her care over the past 5 years and we will step in again if she needs something after this money is gone. Does anyone have a good solution?