My husband was not diagnosed yet, but his mother has AL and he is doing the same things she did. Gets mad at the little things,I am wrong no matter what I do or say,He wants to buy exspensive things ,We can't afford.We are both on ss and I take care of everything around the house and he said I do nothing. I also have RA and in painall the time. The stress does not help. What can I do to stop his spending, and get help?