His nastiness and accusatory behavior is starting to wear on us. Our aunt, his wife passed away several months ago leaving him and an adult down's syndrome daughter who lives in a group home. We are her legal guardians and his power of attorney. He is insisting that we schemed and have taken title to his condo and taken his money. It breaks my heart that he has such a low opinion of us to think such terrible things and don't know how to react to his rantings. He lives alone - we are there (40 miles each way) 2-3 times a week. We take him to all his doctor appointments. We have arranged for a woman who come in 2-3 times a week to do cleaning, cooking. laundry and will take him on any errands. The more my husband and I are involved, the more angry he becomes with us. Any ideas out there?